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Wedding shoe game: 60 questions and a guest-vote quiz

Who is more patient? Who starts dancing first? The wedding shoe game lets a couple answer the same question without seeing each other’s choice. This ready-made version adds a playful twist: guests can vote on their phones before the couple raises a shoe. The 15 questions of the template are conversation starters, with no correct answer or score, and 45 more ideas follow below.

Time including discussion:
10–15 min
For:
Couples, wedding hosts and guests

English template · 15 questions

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Question 1 of 15

Who made the first move?

What you can leave with

A short shared moment that puts the couple at ease and gives guests something to join in with, even when they do not know each other.

All questions in this template

Read the prompts now. Open a question to see its choices; the editor lets you adapt the wording and order.

  1. 1. Who made the first move?
    • A
    • B
  2. 2. Who is more patient?
    • A
    • B
  3. 3. Who has the bigger sweet tooth?
    • A
    • B
  4. 4. Who takes longer to get ready?
    • A
    • B
  5. 5. Who is more likely to suggest a spontaneous outing?
    • A
    • B
  6. 6. Who is more likely to find misplaced things?
    • A
    • B
  7. 7. Who laughs more easily at a terrible joke?
    • A
    • B
  8. 8. Who takes more photos on holiday?
    • A
    • B
  9. 9. Who is better at keeping a surprise secret?
    • A
    • B
  10. 10. Who is first onto the dance floor?
    • A
    • B
  11. 11. Who remembers song lyrics better?
    • A
    • B
  12. 12. Who is more likely to suggest a new recipe?
    • A
    • B
  13. 13. Who remembers important dates better?
    • A
    • B
  14. 14. Who packs their suitcase earlier?
    • A
    • B
  15. 15. Who is more likely to find a small way to make the other smile?
    • A
    • B

45 more wedding shoe game questions

Swap any of these into the template or read them aloud. Keep the ones that suit the couple and skip anything too private.

Everyday life

  • Who is the better cook?
  • Who is more likely to burn dinner?
  • Who steals the blanket?
  • Who is more of a morning person?
  • Who is tidier?
  • Who spends longer in the shower?
  • Who is more likely to lose their keys?
  • Who has the TV remote?
  • Who falls asleep first during a film?

Love and romance

  • Who said “I love you” first?
  • Who is more romantic?
  • Who apologizes first after a disagreement?
  • Who plans the best date nights?
  • Who gives the best presents?
  • Who is more likely to cry today?
  • Who sends more messages during the day?
  • Who remembers your first meeting in more detail?
  • Who is more likely to leave a love note?

Travel and adventure

  • Who is the better navigator?
  • Who is more likely to get lost?
  • Who would pick the beach over the mountains?
  • Who tries more unusual food abroad?
  • Who is more likely to miss a train or a flight?
  • Who chooses the holiday destination?
  • Who learns a few words of the local language?
  • Who brings back the most souvenirs?
  • Who would happily go camping?

Friends and parties

  • Who is the life of the party?
  • Who is more likely to leave a party early?
  • Who tells the longest stories?
  • Who is the better karaoke singer?
  • Who starts the group photos?
  • Who makes friends more easily?
  • Who is the better host?
  • Who is more competitive at board games?
  • Who will make the funniest toast tonight?

The years ahead

  • Who is more likely to want a pet?
  • Who will do most of the DIY?
  • Who will plan your first anniversary?
  • Who is more likely to suggest living abroad?
  • Who will remember your anniversary every year?
  • Who will pick up a new hobby first?
  • Who will make the big decisions?
  • Who will keep the wedding photos organized?
  • Who will suggest renewing your vows one day?

How to run this activity

  1. 1

    Personalize it together

    Replace A and B with the couple’s names. Let both partners review the questions, remove anything uncomfortable and agree that skipping is always fine.

  2. 2

    Prepare the room

    Place two chairs back to back. Each partner holds one of their own shoes and one of the other person’s. A sign, a card or a hand gesture works too. Test the screen before guests arrive.

  3. 3

    Let guests predict

    Share the PIN or QR code. Read one question, invite guests to vote, then ask the couple to raise the shoe of the person they choose. Read questions aloud for guests without a phone.

  4. 4

    Keep a gentle rhythm

    Leave room for a brief anecdote after a surprising answer. Stop after ten to fifteen minutes, or select fewer questions for a shorter break between courses.

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